Goals...

I was just havin a chat with one of my friends and we just hit upon the word GOAL... For each one of us the word has got different meanin but the essence is same for all of us... the ultimate aim or desire... I would stick to " Aim" as the meanin as it sounds good ;)
We all have a goal in mind all the time which we achieve to reach by our efforts... the goal may be a short term or long term it may be a career oriented or social one... but yes they are always there. We sometimes find the path to them as difficult but the apex is always beautiful... Its just like soccer, where u have a goal with the path full of obstacles(opponents) and when u put the football in the goal ( thats ur aim in the match).. u feel the feelin of elation... u see urself on the top of the world at the moment and thats the moment of glory for you. Same is the case of life... we all have the goals set for ourself as I said before and when the crowing moment comes we are on the top of the world...


But then one thing comes to my mind, are material goals the real goal of one's life... I am at sea regarding this point as one should be aware of his ultimate aim in life... does playin in the muddy puddle of money or makin the best of ur life. What does it really matter? Keepin a Maybach or sleepin peacefully every night. Can all the money in the world but the smile for ur family, well thats hard to say. As for some money is everything. Theres no denyin the fact that yes money is always needed but some social or spiritual goal is also needed. As without the food for thought, how can we make sure that we are developin our thinkin process. Without some different sort of goal in life we are completely clueless about where are we headin, what is the inner aim of ourselves... and in the end we realise that its late... we then search for peace which is always within us n never searched for... so make a goal in life that caters to ur spritual as well as mental development apart from the day to day business and see the changes that occur in u as well has how they have impacted ur life.....

"Life as a human is a special gift of god, so dont waste it but give urself some food for thought."

Don't Know Y???

For past couple of days, I was not in my senses, meaning... I was just lost. I was not doing anything, just eating and napping. My mind was full of things but I wasn't able to make out them. This was givin way to an uneasiness within me, as when you are not able to have clear thoughts you don't feel you as yourself. I was in utter confusion, it looked as though my brain was givin a error of memory overflow.... and then also I was helpless.
I listened to music which relaxeed me a bit but that was not enough, I made drawings but that also wasn't good... at the end of the day I was just fretting over small things, but as it had to be things were getting worse. Last nite, I did some light reading which relaxed me to a great extent and this made my day better today, while for the final touch I thought that why not write out some post so that my excess of energies (positive or negative) are spent out and I become calm once again. The worst part was that I was not able to give out energies in the usual ways... anger, hitting walls, shouting etc.... It was all jumbled up. But now after writin out something quite haywire here, I am feelin better. I dont knw the real thing.... I don't know anything...I don't knw the surroundings......



I don't know why? Why does it happen? Why does it not go? Why does it makes u sad? Why does it makes you feel bad? Why do u not feel yourself at the time? Why is that it happens anytime? Just Why? Why are there no answers?

Mereko TAG kiya :) ... khush mat ho... hate waala tag hai... :P

" There's nothin to be hated in this world, its all about how you look at things"

Hahahaha... Arti tagged me. Its bout the things that annoy me the most... Well sometimes nothing can annoy me, while sometimes even the slightest thing can annoy me to the hilt. But, if speaking my mind things are not bad... its the way your mind sees them... if not in good spirits anything can annoy you. Like that its all personal perceptions... But now I have to go on with my list of things that I hate or that annoy me the most.... so here are somethings....

1. I hate those people don't put in efforts for their goals and when they fail, they blame their fate and luck. They don't realise that it ws their fault and not bad luck.
2. I am annoyed by those who just think that except their own work, everybody is doing some crap of work.
3. I hate those who are more interested more in what others are doing rather than concentrate on their own work.
4. I detest those who keep double standards, saying something else and doing something else. Also those of the species who are more interested in back-biting.
5. I abhor hypocrisy.
6. I am annoyed by those who think public places are their drawing rooms, and having no consideration for other people. Smoking like an engine, talking like a loud speaker.... and what not.
7. I really get angered, by those who think the whole world except their home is a garbage dump.
8. People who are more ready with excuses, than their work annoy me truly.
9. I abhor those of the kind who think they are the law makers for the society and when it comes to their own lifes.... then its like " laws are made to be broken...."
10. I am annoyed by those persons who are made to laugh at each and everything, be it grave also. And makin fun of the less fortunate ones, than them.

Last but not the least, all the bad things within me, annoy me to the maximum, as they are cause for my debacle in one way or the other. and by removin them I hope to refine myself.

Chalo... ab major work to ho gaya...likhne ka major work.. but when going thru the post I thought certain changes to be made... but then its the first thought that matter as they show what were ur immediate reactions and whats going on in your sub-concious. Neways, now comes the interesting part.... samajhe nahin kya... arey tag karne ke liye koi ... nahin to phir is tag ka yahan dardnak aant ho jaayega... isiliye... I want to say ki koi mil gaya...to a chalte hain shikar pe... aur yeh hai mere hit list ... :P

• Nidhi
• Neo
• Atul
• Megha
• Hiren
• Illusions

well... till now these are the people... but as alwys those who want to follow me can always follow me...

P.S: Kuch baatein rah gaye aur kuch mein zyada he kah diya. Par then its life... :)

Happy Valentine's Day!!!

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!!!!!!!

Light...

Follow your heart and let god show you the light to lead the way...

I don't know... Why?

"The words are flowing,
without any meaning,
The sounds are deep,
into the heart they seep,
Tears run dry,
then why do I cry,
I think the world is clean,
but truth is its too mean,
Am I too innocent I say,
in answer I receive a nay,
Its all in me and am in all,
this is the earths mall,
I sit and contemplate,
Why do we ever hate,
For all these,I just get a word EGO....
Then why don't we all let it GO.............."

I was just sitting and thinking about life. Today had no definate plans whatsoever.. to update my blog. Just a lil' while ago was talkin to my friend and during it I was thinking bout the human nature. Well I am not anybody to comment on human nature but then I had some points in my mind, so thought to have them here....
Why can't ppl take failure in stride? Why don't they accept it as a means to learn something? Why there is always a hesitation to ask something from a person, who is in some way lesser than you? Why do it is that ppl think that the whole place is against them? Why do ppl remain closed and say that the worlds not friendly? Why do we not be normal with our opponent? Why is it anybody with knowledge is considered as a preacher? Why is it so there is always a big "I" in each and every task? Why??? Why???? Why?????
To all the questions I find it hard to find out the answers... there are things common to them but still each in itself is different. We are all friends but then also we are alone. I am at a loss of thoughts and words... its so simple and yet its complicated. It was a simple path, now turned into a maze...
We all are a family and still I am deserted.... well still contemplating on the issue.

P.S. If this post doesnt make any sense don't mind it.... just written my random thoughts.

Ek sanam chahiye....

Nahin........... kyon log mujhe tag kar rahe hain..... Well I have been tagged earlier by Doll
and then by Nidhi so I think ab mujhe kuch likhna he padega about my perfect lover :) ... or my soul mate ( sunne mein accha lagta hain na....) Isiliye ek saman chahiye aashiqi ke liye.....
To chaliye hum aur aap.... err.. sirf hum dekhte hain kaisa hoga mera perfect lover :)

Rules of the game are....
1. The tagged victim has to come up with 8 different points of their perfect lover.
2. Need to mention the sex of the target.
3. Tag 8 victims to join this game & leave a comment on their comments saying they have been tagged.
4. If tagged the 2nd time, there is no need to post again.

Sex target : hmmm.... good ques...... arey itna sochna kya ...female he hona chahiye ....

1. Shud b Understanding : She should have great sense of understanding... meanin she should not be of those kind which are " All show but no go".... a person who understands the other person is always a help and they usually make a great pair..

2. Good at heart : She should be good at heart.... as " Seerat sundar hone chahiye... " a person beautiful at heart is liked by everyone....

3. Friendly nature : Should be my friend for life... cheerful in nature and helping to all....and same for me....

4. Optimist : Mere jaise koi optimist hona chahiye... as I prefer positive ppl round me, who look at the sun at horizon as a sunrise not sunset.....life ke liye positve outlook is very necessary in time of crisis.... to manage it....

5. Respect : should respect my family and its values and also should command respect as its a mutual thing...

6. Independent : should have her own identity... and should srtike a balance between profession and family.... same for me....

7. Should be havin a good taste for clothes but yes not be too shopping savvy.

8. Hahahaha.... should not be a villainous type from Ekta Kapoor serials...... and also no senti stuff from the same genre.... sweet n simple is what I like.....

arey yeh kya 8 pts itne jaldi khatam ho gaye.... hmmmmm..... well now will have to search for 8 ppl to tag.... and thats tough as most have been tagged.... so known or unknown b prepared to be tagged.... :)

1. CyberMenace
2. Hiren
3. Megha
4. Amrit

aur koi nahin mil raha tha... to jise bhi lagi mujhe follow kar sakta hai...
abhi ke liye itna kaafi hai... milte hain ek break ke baad.... :)